I feel a great ease and comfort talking about anything to do with sex. With this, it is easy to forget that this is not the case for many people. Over the course of sharing my thoughts, feelings and ideas of sex on social media, I have noticed several common reactions or responses I regularly … Continue reading The Shame Surrounding Sex
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Foundations of Tantric Sex Podcast Episode
In this episode of Authentic Sex Juliet and Stephanie talk about the foundations of Tantric Sex. This is a great introduction for people who are curious about exploring Tantra and offers some practical and simple ways that people can explore Tantra in the bedroom. To access the podcast click here
Taboo, Fetish & The Darker Side of Sex Podcast Episode
In this episode of Authentic Sex, Stephanie speaks to Juliet Allen about taboo sex acts, fetishes and owning the darker side of our sexuality. This episode explores different role play scenarios, extreme sexual activities, water sports, fisting, owning the predator and the primal side of sex … plus so much more. To access podcast … Continue reading Taboo, Fetish & The Darker Side of Sex Podcast Episode
How To Have A Threesome, Foursome or Moresome…
Sexual fantasies involving multiple people are one of the most common fantasies for both men and women. I used to believe that only few people ever ventured into group sex territory and that it was a thing that happened behind closed doors at the end of a dark alley way-guarded by vicious werewolves of course. I … Continue reading How To Have A Threesome, Foursome or Moresome…
A Pet Name like no other…
Babe, darling, love, honey, sweetie, boo, diamond, sweetheart, beloved, god/goddess – the list of cute names in relationships goes on and on. Names such as these are often said in an affectionate way, with most of them a little corny and cute if nothing else. Some names however can cause a bit more of a … Continue reading A Pet Name like no other…
The Tragic Consequences of Pussy Shame
With so much comparison & judgement of female bodies in our society, it is no wonder that the root of our femininity could not be saved. Women’s vulvas & vaginas have become another part of the body to scrutinise, to the point where young women are undergoing irreversible procedures to change the way they look. … Continue reading The Tragic Consequences of Pussy Shame
Get Your Juices Flowing
Does anybody remember the Sex & the City episode where Samantha is sleeping with a man who has, as she so eloquently puts it, “the funkiest tasting spunk?” Or the scene in There’s Something About Mary where Ben Stiller’s character has his semen dangling from his ear when met to go on a date with Cameron Diaz … Continue reading Get Your Juices Flowing
My Journey from Nurse to Sexologist
What the hell made you want to become a sexologist?! I get asked this regularly and it’s a very difficult question to answer simply. When I was a young girl with hopes and dreams for my future, I could never have imagined that I would choose this path. It has been an interesting and fulfilling … Continue reading My Journey from Nurse to Sexologist
Claiming the Virgin within
I am coming up to 9 weeks of my celibacy journey and felt it was about time I shared another update on how the experience has been for me. I have been experiencing so much emotionally within this journey and with so much happening, it is often difficult to put into words. It’s been an … Continue reading Claiming the Virgin within
My Conscious Celibacy Journey
I love sex. My whole life seems to centre around it. I work as a Sexologist and as a Sex Educator in and Adult Lifestyle Centre, all my personal growth work is sexuality focused. Lots of my friends are sex workers and work in the sex industry in some capacity. Oh and too top it off, … Continue reading My Conscious Celibacy Journey